Depression does not always look the way people expect. Sometimes it is not sadness at all. It is the flatness, the inability to care about things that used to matter, the heaviness that makes getting out of bed feel like a major accomplishment. If your days have started blending together and the motivation that used to come naturally has disappeared, depression therapy can help you find your way back.
For two decades, I have worked with people across all ages who were stuck in that place. Children who stopped wanting to play with friends. Teens who went from outgoing to withdrawn almost overnight. Adults who held it together at work and fell apart the moment they got home. Depression shows up differently in every person, but the common thread is that something essential has gone quiet inside. My job is to help you figure out what happened and what to do about it.
My office is in Agoura Hills, about 25 minutes from Simi Valley down the 118 to the 101. Virtual sessions are also available if you would prefer to meet from home.
Stability on the outside does not always match what is happening on the inside. Long commutes, the pressure to keep up, and a sense of isolation can all contribute to feeling trapped, even when your life looks fine from the outside.
A pull-yourself-up attitude has real strengths, but it can also make it harder to recognize depression when it sets in. When everyone around you seems to be managing fine, admitting that you are struggling can feel like a personal failure. It is not. Depression is not a character flaw, and reaching out for help takes more strength than pushing through alone.
My approach to depression starts with understanding the whole picture. I want to know about your sleep, your relationships, your daily routine, and the things you have tried so far. Depression rarely has a single cause, and treatment that only addresses one piece of the puzzle tends to fall short. We will look at what is keeping the depression going and work on changing those patterns, whether they are in your thinking, your behavior, your relationships, or some combination. You can read more about my general approach on my depression therapy page.
The pace is yours to set. Some clients come in ready to make changes quickly. Others need time just to talk about what has been weighing on them before they are ready to take action. Both approaches work. What does not work is doing nothing and hoping it gets better on its own. If depression has been hanging around for weeks or months, it is unlikely to leave without some intervention.
Depression therapy with me starts by getting a clear picture of what your life looks like right now. I ask about sleep, energy, appetite, relationships, and the things that used to bring you pleasure but no longer do. From there we work together to understand what is driving the depression and build a realistic plan to help you start feeling more like yourself. There is no script. Every session is shaped by what you need that day.
Rough patches usually lift on their own when circumstances change. Depression tends to stick around even when things on paper look fine. If you have been feeling flat, tired, unmotivated, or disconnected for more than a couple of weeks and it is affecting your work, your relationships, or your ability to enjoy anything, that is worth exploring with a professional. You do not have to wait until it gets severe to reach out.
Yes. My office in Agoura Hills is right off the freeway, and the drive is straightforward. I also offer virtual therapy sessions, which many clients prefer because it eliminates the commute entirely.
Absolutely. Teen depression can look different from adult depression. Instead of sadness, you might see irritability, withdrawal from friends, declining grades, or a sudden loss of interest in activities they used to love. I work with teens to help them put words to what they are feeling and develop strategies that fit their life. Parents are also part of the process when that is appropriate.
I do. Virtual sessions work well for depression therapy and are available to anyone located in California. For Simi Valley residents, virtual sessions can be especially convenient given the distance to my office. All you need is a private space and a device with a camera.
Yes. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I often work with family members who are affected by a loved one's depression. Sometimes the person who is depressed is not ready for therapy yet, and a family member comes in first to learn how to support them without burning out. Other times, we bring family members into sessions once the work is underway. Both paths can help.
My office in Agoura Hills, CA 91301 is convenient for in-person depression therapy near Simi Valley. I also see clients from the surrounding communities, including Moorpark, CA, Thousand Oaks, CA, Westlake Village, CA, Agoura Hills, CA, Oak Park, CA, and Camarillo, CA. Virtual therapy sessions are available to individuals located anywhere within the state of California.
If depression has been pulling you away from the life you want, reaching out is the first step toward getting it back. Schedule a free phone consultation and we can talk about what you have been experiencing and how therapy might help.
Offering both in-person and virtual sessions