Thousand Oaks is the heart of the Conejo Valley: a large, family-centered city that turns up year after year on lists of the safest places in California. People come here for exactly that, the good schools, the open space, the sense that life is a little steadier than it is elsewhere. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 20 years of experience, and my office is about 15 to 20 minutes east on the 101.
Living somewhere this comfortable carries a quiet catch. When the city around you looks calm and successful, it can feel out of place to admit you are struggling. I hear that often from Thousand Oaks clients. The truth is that anxiety, depression, grief, and family strain do not skip the safe neighborhoods. They just go unspoken longer. Therapy is where you get to say the real thing out loud.
I work with all ages, from children to seniors, and I keep my approach plain and practical. We name what is going on, set goals that matter to you, and track real progress. The concerns I see most often include:
Thousand Oaks is a city built around the outdoors, from Wildwood Regional Park to the miles of Conejo Open Space trails, and I am a believer in the steadying effect of getting outside. But fresh air is not a substitute for support when something heavier is going on. Good therapy gives you both: a place to do the harder work and habits that hold up once you leave the room.
If you are weighing therapy for yourself, your teen, or your child, the simplest start is a short call. Schedule a complimentary phone consultation and we can talk through what you are facing and whether I am the right fit.
Anxiety can feel especially isolating in a place as settled as Thousand Oaks, where it seems like everyone else has it handled. They do not. I treat generalized anxiety, panic, social anxiety, and specific phobias using cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness skills. We pin down what triggers the worry, examine the thoughts feeding it, and build tools you can use in the moment, so a quiet life on the outside starts to feel quieter on the inside too.
I invite you to explore my Anxiety Therapy Services page to learn more about how I can support you on your journey to wellbeing.
Depression does not need a clear reason to take hold, and it often confuses people who feel they have a good life and no right to feel low. That guilt only deepens it. I work with Thousand Oaks adults, teens, and children who have lost their interest, their energy, or their sense of connection. We look at what is keeping the low mood in place and build small, doable steps back toward the things that matter. If you have been going through the motions for a while, that is reason enough to reach out.
Learn more about my Depression Therapy Services.
Healing from sexual abuse calls for a therapist who is trained for this work and who will move at your pace, not a step faster. I have years of experience with survivors of sexual trauma, and I offer Thousand Oaks clients a private, steady setting to do that work. We make room for what happened, lower the symptoms that keep it alive in the present, and rebuild a sense of safety in your body and your relationships. Reaching out is the hardest part, and you can do it on your own timeline.
If you or someone you know is struggling with the aftermath of sexual abuse, know that help is available. To learn more about my approach to sexual abuse therapy, including treatment approaches for post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and emotional abuse, please visit Sexual Abuse Therapy.
*I am a certified: UCLA Rape Treatment Center / Sexual Assault Counselor
Trauma can come from one overwhelming event or from a long run of painful years, and it tends to stay lodged in the body well after the danger has passed. It shows up as broken sleep, a quick temper, or a sense of being on guard even at home in a quiet neighborhood. I use trauma-informed methods to help you process what happened so it loses its hold on the present. I also work with Thousand Oaks children and teens after a loss or a frightening experience, using approaches matched to their age.
Learn more about my Trauma Therapy Services.
Younger children tend to act out what they cannot explain. You might see stomachaches before school, new fears, big meltdowns, or a child who has gone quiet. I work with kids ages seven to ten through play, drawing, and games, the natural language of childhood. Even in a settled Conejo Valley household, kids absorb stress from school, friendships, and family changes, and I help them give shape to those feelings while keeping parents in step on what helps at home.
Learn more about child therapy.
Teens in the Conejo Valley Unified School District often carry real academic pressure under a calm surface: the push to keep grades up, fill out a college resume, and measure up to peers who seem to have it figured out. I give teenagers a private space to be honest, separate from school and from parents. We work on anxiety, low mood, self-worth, and the friendships and relationships that take up so much of their world, and I help them build coping skills sturdy enough for the pressure they actually face.
Learn more about teen therapy.
Even in a family-friendly city full of parks and good schools, raising kids is hard, and many Thousand Oaks parents come in worn down by the daily grind: the homework standoffs, the screen-time fights, the teenager who has stopped talking. Parenting work is a chance to step back and look clearly at what is happening. We figure out which limits are worth holding, how to set them so they actually stick, and how to stay close to your child even while you are holding the line.
Learn more about family therapy.
Adults in Thousand Oaks often carry the quiet sense that they should be content, given how much is going well around them. That expectation can make it harder to admit when something is wrong. Anxiety, a stubborn low mood, a marriage that has gone flat, or an old hurt that keeps resurfacing does not care how nice the neighborhood is.
Therapy is a place to stop performing fine and look at what is actually happening. We begin with what is most pressing, whether that is a specific condition, a hard transition, or a sense of being stuck, and we build practical tools you can carry between sessions.
As a marriage and family therapist, I also work with adults on their closest relationships, with a partner, a parent, or an adult child. We trace the patterns that keep producing the same conflict and practice steadier ways of relating.
You do not have to wait for things to fall apart to begin. Some clients come for a few focused sessions, others for a longer stretch of growth. Either way, the goal is a life that feels genuinely settled, not just settled on the surface.
My office is in Agoura Hills, CA 91301, about 15 to 20 minutes east of Thousand Oaks on the 101, depending on which part of the city you start from. It is an easy drive, whether you are coming from near The Oaks, the Civic Arts Plaza, or one of the neighborhoods tucked up against the open space. When the week is too full for the trip, I also see clients by secure video anywhere in California.
If you are ready to begin, I invite you to reach out to schedule a complimentary phone consultation. A short call is usually enough to tell whether my approach fits what you are looking for.
Along with Thousand Oaks, I work with clients across the Conejo Valley and nearby, including Newbury Park, Westlake Village, Oak Park, Agoura Hills, Calabasas, and Simi Valley. In person at my office or by secure video, I am glad to help.
Yes. I see clients from Thousand Oaks and the surrounding area at my Agoura Hills office, and I also offer secure virtual therapy to anyone in California.
My Agoura Hills office is about 15 to 20 minutes from Thousand Oaks on the 101, depending on which part of the Conejo Valley you start from.
Yes. I see Thousand Oaks children, teens, and parents often. Even in a city this calm and well regarded, students feel academic pressure and families hit rough patches, and I work with both the young person and the parents.
Both. You can meet with me in person at my Agoura Hills office or by secure video anywhere in California, whichever fits your schedule and comfort.
I work with anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual abuse recovery, grief, and family or co-parenting concerns, with children ages eight and up, teens, and adults.
Offering Both Virtual And in person Sessions