Anxiety rarely announces itself. It builds quietly until small things start to feel impossible. You sit at a stoplight and your heart is racing for no reason you can name. You lie awake at 3 a.m. with your mind cycling through every worry from the day. A life that looks calm from the outside can make it harder to admit when something inside you will not settle down.
I have been a licensed marriage and family therapist for more than 20 years, and I have sat with hundreds of people who felt the way you might feel right now. Anxiety therapy is not about talking yourself out of it. It is about understanding what your nervous system is doing and learning, step by step, how to bring it back down.
My office is at 28310 Roadside Dr. in Agoura Hills, roughly 25 minutes from West Hills on the 101 West. I also see clients by secure video anywhere in California, which works well for people who would rather not add a drive to an already full day.
Worry is normal. Most people have some of it. What brings people to my office is the kind of anxiety that does not have an off switch. You replay conversations. You scan for problems that are not there. Your body stays braced even when nothing is wrong, and you start avoiding ordinary things: a phone call, a freeway merge, a social event. The avoidance feels like relief at first, then slowly makes your world smaller. At that point anxiety is no longer a passing feeling. It is a loop, and loops usually take more than willpower to interrupt.
Many of my clients are parents juggling work and kids, or adults with long commutes and full days. The pace looks settled from the outside. Inside, a lot of people are running on adrenaline and calling it normal.
That gap between how things look and how they feel is something I hear about often. It can feel like you are the only one struggling while everyone else has it together. You are not. Anxiety does not care how well things appear to be going. The people I work with from West Hills are capable and grounded, and they have simply reached a point where pushing through is no longer working.
No two people are anxious in the same way, so I do not use a single template. Some clients come in with panic attacks that arrive out of nowhere. Others describe a low, constant hum of dread that never fully quiets. Some have felt this way their whole lives, and others can trace it back to a specific event. We start by getting clear on what your anxiety actually looks like and what keeps feeding it. From there I help you build skills you can use in real life, including cognitive behavioral techniques, gradual exposure, and grounding strategies. You can read more about my general approach on my anxiety therapy page.
The goal is not to erase every uncomfortable feeling. Some anxiety is useful information. The goal is to get your nervous system out of overdrive so you can sleep, think clearly, and stop building your days around what you are trying to avoid. That shift is real, and most people start to feel it sooner than they expect.
We start by getting clear on what triggers your anxiety and what keeps it going. From there we build practical skills, including cognitive behavioral techniques, gradual exposure, and grounding strategies suited to your situation. Sessions take place at my Agoura Hills office or by secure video anywhere in California.
Some stress is part of life. Anxiety becomes a clinical concern when the worry is persistent, out of proportion to what is happening, and starts interfering with your sleep, work, or relationships. If you are avoiding situations, having panic symptoms, or feeling on edge most days, therapy can help you sort out what is going on and what to do about it.
Yes. I work with children ages 8 and up, teens, and adults. Anxiety looks different at each age. With younger kids I use more concrete, hands-on tools, and with teens and adults the work is more direct skill-building. School-related anxiety is one of the more common reasons parents reach out.
My office in Agoura Hills is about 25 minutes from West Hills via the 101 West. If the drive feels like one more stressor, secure video sessions are available throughout California.
Yes. Secure video sessions are available anywhere in California. Many people find virtual therapy just as effective for anxiety, and it removes the added stress of a commute on top of an already busy day.
My office in Agoura Hills, CA 91301 is an easy drive for in-person anxiety therapy near West Hills. I also see clients from neighboring communities, including Woodland Hills, CA, Calabasas, CA, and Canoga Park, CA. Virtual sessions are available to anyone located anywhere in California.
If anxiety has been running your days for too long, I would be glad to talk. Schedule a free phone consultation and we can figure out whether working together makes sense.
Offering both in-person and virtual sessions