Anxiety has a way of speeding everything up. You sit at a red light on Ventura Boulevard and your mind is already three problems ahead. You lie down at night on a quiet street south of the boulevard and your thoughts will not slow down. For a lot of people in Tarzana, anxiety is not an occasional bad day. It is the volume the whole day runs at, and living that way wears you down.
I have spent more than 20 years as a licensed marriage and family therapist, and I have sat with hundreds of people who described that exact feeling. Anxiety therapy is not about telling yourself to relax or pushing through one more week. It is about understanding what your body and mind are actually doing when the worry takes over, and learning specific ways to turn the volume back down.
My office is at 28310 Roadside Dr. in Agoura Hills, about 25 minutes from Tarzana on the 101 West. I also see clients by secure video anywhere in California, which works well for people who would rather skip the drive after a long day.
Everyone feels nervous before a big meeting or a hard conversation. That is not what brings people to my office. What brings them in is worry that keeps running when there is nothing left to worry about. The replaying of conversations. The racing heart in the grocery store. The avoidance that quietly shrinks your world until you are turning down invitations and rearranging your week to dodge anything that might set off the dread.
When anxiety gets to that point, it is no longer a passing mood. Your nervous system has settled into a pattern, and patterns like that rarely respond to willpower alone. Anxiety can show up as panic that hits without warning, as a constant low hum of unease, or as physical symptoms like a tight chest, stomach trouble, and broken sleep. Whatever shape it takes for you, it is treatable, and you do not have to wait until it gets worse to do something about it.
Tarzana sits in the middle of the San Fernando Valley, and the pace of Valley life feeds a particular kind of stress. Long commutes. Demanding jobs. The cost of raising a family in Los Angeles. Many of the people I see from Tarzana are juggling work, kids at Tarzana Elementary or Portola Middle School, aging parents, and a calendar that never seems to empty out. The anxiety builds slowly until one ordinary Tuesday it feels like too much.
There is also a quieter pressure that comes with keeping it all together on the outside. From the tree-lined streets south of Ventura Boulevard to the busy commercial corridor, it can look like everyone else has things figured out. They do not. The clients I work with from Tarzana are capable, hardworking people who reached a point where managing on their own stopped working. Therapy gives them a place to set the load down and learn how to carry it differently.
No two people are anxious in the same way, so I do not work from a template. Some clients arrive with panic attacks that seem to come out of nowhere. Others have lived with a steady background of dread for years. We start by getting specific about what your anxiety looks like, what tends to set it off, and how it is interfering with your sleep, your work, and your relationships. From there I teach you practical tools you can actually use: ways to settle your body, ways to interrupt the spiral of catastrophic thinking, and gradual steps back toward the situations you have been avoiding. You can read more about my general approach on my anxiety therapy page.
The goal is not to erase every uncomfortable feeling. Some anxiety is useful information. The goal is to get your nervous system out of overdrive so you can think clearly, sleep through the night, and stop organizing your life around what you are afraid of. Most people start to feel a shift sooner than they expect.
Anxiety therapy addresses persistent worry, panic attacks, social anxiety, and physical symptoms like a racing heart, muscle tension, and trouble sleeping. For many people in Tarzana, it also means the everyday stress of Valley commutes, demanding work, and caring for both children and aging parents. We shape each session around what is causing the most disruption in your life right now.
Stress is a normal part of life. Anxiety becomes a clinical concern when the worry is persistent, out of proportion to what is actually happening, and getting in the way of your work, sleep, or relationships. If you are avoiding situations you used to handle, having panic episodes, or feeling on edge most days, that is worth looking at with a therapist.
My office at 28310 Roadside Dr. in Agoura Hills is about 25 minutes from Tarzana on the 101 West. If the drive after a full day feels like one more thing on your plate, secure video sessions are available anywhere in California.
Yes. I see clients across California by secure video. Virtual sessions work just as well for anxiety as in-person work for most people, and they remove the stress of fighting Ventura Boulevard or freeway traffic to get to an appointment.
Yes. I work with children ages 8 and up as well as teenagers. Anxiety in young people often looks different than it does in adults, showing up as stomachaches, school refusal, or irritability. I use age-appropriate methods to help kids and teens understand what they are feeling, and I bring parents into the process when it helps.
It varies, but many people notice a difference within the first several weeks once they have a few concrete tools and a clearer understanding of what is happening. Deeper, longer-standing patterns take more time. We set a pace that fits your situation rather than rushing toward an arbitrary finish line.
My office in Agoura Hills, CA 91301 is an easy drive from Tarzana for in-person anxiety therapy. I also work with clients from the surrounding Valley communities, including Encino, CA, Woodland Hills, CA, and Reseda, CA. Virtual therapy sessions are available to anyone located anywhere within the state of California.
If anxiety has been running the show for too long, I would be glad to talk with you. Schedule a complimentary phone consultation and we can figure out whether working together makes sense.
Offering Both Virtual And in person Sessions