Depression rarely arrives as a dramatic collapse. More often it is a slow dimming. The things that used to feel good go flat. Getting out of bed takes more than it should. You keep up appearances, answer the emails, show up where you are supposed to be, and feel like you are watching your own life from a few steps back. In a place like Sherman Oaks, where everyone seems busy and accomplished, that quiet emptiness can be especially isolating.
For more than 20 years I have worked as a licensed marriage and family therapist with people who felt exactly that way. Depression is not a character flaw, and it is not something you can simply decide your way out of. It is a condition that affects your energy, your sleep, your thinking, and your sense of what is possible. With the right support, it lifts.
My office in Agoura Hills is about 30 to 35 minutes from Sherman Oaks via the 101 West. I also offer virtual sessions to anyone in California, which matters on the days when leaving the house feels like climbing a wall.
Everyone has low days. Depression is different. It settles in and stays. You might notice that you are sleeping too much or too little, that food has lost its appeal or become the only comfort, that small decisions feel impossibly heavy. The harsh inner voice gets louder and more convincing. Hobbies, friendships, and plans you once looked forward to start to feel like obligations or simply do not interest you anymore. When that pattern lasts for weeks, it is worth taking seriously, and it is worth getting help for.
There is a specific kind of depression that shows up in high-achieving communities, and Sherman Oaks has plenty of it. People here are accomplished. They have the career, the home south of the boulevard, the kids in good schools. And some of them feel hollow in the middle of all of it, which only adds a layer of guilt: what right do I have to feel this way when my life looks like this? That guilt keeps people quiet, and the quiet keeps them stuck.
For families connected to the entertainment industry, the rhythm of work can feed the problem. Long stretches without a project, the sudden quiet after an intense one, public rejection that lands as personal failure. For others it is the grind of keeping up appearances in an area where so much is on display. Whatever the source, the depression is real, and so is the relief that comes from finally saying it out loud to someone who is not going to be shocked or judge you for it.
I start by listening. Before anything else, you need a place where you can say how things really are without dressing it up. From there we work to understand what is feeding the depression, whether it is a recent loss, a long-running pattern, a relationship that has worn you down, or something with no obvious cause at all. Treatment often includes talk therapy, behavioral activation to help you reconnect with the parts of life that matter, and practical strategies you can use between sessions. You can read more about my general approach on my depression therapy page.
The goal is not relentless positivity. It is to help you feel like yourself again, to get your energy and interest back, and to loosen the grip of the thoughts that tell you nothing will change. Depression lies about the future. Part of my job is to help you see past it while we do the work that actually moves things.
Depression therapy addresses persistent low mood, loss of interest, fatigue, sleep and appetite changes, and the kind of self-criticism that tells you nothing you do is enough. We work to understand what is driving it and build a plan to restore energy, motivation, and connection. Depending on what fits, that may include talk therapy, behavioral activation, and practical coping strategies.
Yes, and I see it often. In a high-achieving area like Sherman Oaks, depression frequently hides behind a full schedule and a life that looks good from the outside. People keep producing while feeling numb, going through the motions, and wondering why none of it lands. Depression is not only sadness. The flatness, the disconnection, and the sense that you are just performing are part of it too, and they respond to treatment.
My Agoura Hills office is about 30 to 35 minutes from Sherman Oaks via the 101 West.
Yes. I offer secure video sessions anywhere in California, which can be especially helpful on the days when getting out the door and onto the 101 feels like too much. For many people, keeping the appointment is half the battle, and virtual sessions make that easier.
Yes. I work with children ages 8 and up, teens, and adults. In young people depression can show up as irritability, withdrawal, or slipping grades rather than obvious sadness, so I tailor the work to each age and bring parents in when it helps.
My office is in Agoura Hills, CA 91301, an easy drive west of Sherman Oaks on the 101. I also work with clients from the surrounding communities, including Encino, CA, Studio City, CA, Van Nuys, CA, and Woodland Hills, CA. Virtual therapy sessions are available to anyone located anywhere within the state of California.
If the heaviness has been with you for a while, you do not have to keep carrying it alone. Schedule a complimentary phone consultation and we can decide together whether this is the right next step.
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