Depression rarely announces itself. It arrives slowly. The things you used to look forward to start to feel like effort. Getting out of bed and onto Ventura Boulevard for the day takes everything you have. You are still showing up to work and the school pickup, but inside you feel flat, heavy, or strangely numb. A lot of people in Tarzana live this way for months before they call anyone, telling themselves they should be able to snap out of it.
You cannot simply will your way out of depression, and the fact that you have not been able to does not mean you are weak. After more than 20 years as a licensed marriage and family therapist, I can tell you that depression is a real condition with real treatment, and most people who get help start to feel like themselves again. Therapy is where that begins.
My office is at 28310 Roadside Dr. in Agoura Hills, about 25 minutes from Tarzana on the 101 West. I also offer secure video sessions across California, which helps on the days when getting out the door feels like the hardest part.
Everyone has low days. Depression is different. It lingers. The sadness or emptiness does not lift after a good night's sleep or a nice weekend. You may notice that you have lost interest in things you used to enjoy, that your sleep and appetite are off, that you are exhausted no matter how much you rest, or that small decisions feel impossible. Some people feel deep sadness. Others feel irritable, restless, or simply nothing at all.
If you are having thoughts of death or of not wanting to be here, please treat that as a reason to reach out now rather than later. Depression can convince you that nothing will change. That is the illness talking, not the truth. With the right support, things do change.
Life in the San Fernando Valley can be isolating in a way that feeds depression. You can spend an hour in traffic on the 101, work a full day, and still feel like you have not had a real conversation with anyone. In a busy place like Tarzana, where everyone seems occupied and moving fast, it is easy to assume you are the only one struggling and to keep it hidden behind a normal-looking routine.
You are not the only one, and you do not have to keep performing fine. The people I work with from Tarzana are often high-functioning on the surface: holding down jobs, raising kids, managing households. The depression underneath is invisible to almost everyone around them. Therapy is a place to stop holding it together and start actually feeling better.
We begin by getting a clear picture of what your depression looks like and what is feeding it, whether that is a recent loss, chronic stress, a difficult relationship, or a low mood that has been there as long as you can remember. From there we work on both the immediate and the underlying pieces. That often means rebuilding small daily routines and reconnecting with activity and people, alongside addressing the patterns of thought and the past experiences that keep the depression in place. You can read more about my general approach on my depression therapy page.
I work with children ages 8 and up, teens, and adults. In young people, depression often looks like irritability, withdrawal, or trouble at school rather than obvious sadness, so I adjust the approach to fit each age. Whatever your situation, the goal is the same: to help you feel less weighed down and more like yourself.
We work together to understand what is driving the depression and build a plan to restore energy, motivation, and connection. Depending on what fits you, that may include talk therapy, rebuilding daily routines and activity, and addressing the thought patterns and experiences underneath. Sessions are held at my Agoura Hills office or by secure video.
Stress and burnout usually ease when the pressure lets up. Depression tends to stick around regardless, and it often comes with a loss of interest in things you used to enjoy, changes in sleep and appetite, low energy, and trouble concentrating. If those have been with you most days for a couple of weeks or more, it is worth talking with a therapist.
Yes. I work with children ages 8 and up, teens, and adults. In young people, depression often shows up as irritability, withdrawal, or slipping grades rather than obvious sadness, so I tailor the work to each age and keep parents appropriately involved.
My office at 28310 Roadside Dr. in Agoura Hills is about 25 minutes from Tarzana on the 101 West. On harder days, secure video sessions let you do the work from home, anywhere in California.
Yes. I offer secure video sessions anywhere in California. When depression makes leaving the house feel like too much, being able to meet from your own space can be the thing that gets you started.
Therapy on its own helps many people with depression. As a marriage and family therapist I do not prescribe medication, but for some people a combination of therapy and medication works best. If that seems worth exploring, I can coordinate with your physician or a psychiatrist so you have the full picture before deciding.
My office in Agoura Hills, CA 91301 is a short drive from Tarzana for in-person depression therapy. I also see clients from the surrounding Valley communities, including Encino, CA, Woodland Hills, CA, and Reseda, CA. Virtual therapy sessions are available to anyone located anywhere within the state of California.
If you have been carrying this longer than you should have to, reaching out is a real first step. Schedule a complimentary phone consultation and we can talk about what is going on and how I can help.
Offering Both Virtual And in person Sessions